Allyship In The Work Place

This past week has been very emotional and intense, for several different reasons. The media has been flooded with so much information and resources regarding the Black Lives Matter movement.

Here at Zenned Math, we have had some great conversations in our Facebook Group- Zenned Math Teachers.
We’ve even had many new members join our wonderful community. We, as a community have a lot of work to do. So let’s begin.

The first step in all of this is to research and learn what the challenges are for marginalized groups, how systemic oppression weighs in, and how to be an ally.

There has been a lot of discussion around allyship. So what is that really?
An ally is someone who is not part of a marginalized group but who takes action to support that group.
Now marginalized groups are plural for a reason. Many different people are underrepresented and face racial inequalities. Recently the movement is focused around Black lives. However, other marginalized groups include indigenous, Latinx, middle eastern, Asian American people, and many others.

It may seem silly for me to go over these terms, but the reality is many people are unaware of what they truly mean. For example, the acronym BIPOC is it stands for Black, Indigenous, People Of Color. I get a lot of questions about the term Latinx. That’s just representing a person of Latin American origin that is gender-neutral. For example, typically, Latino is used for males and Latina for females. Latinx removes gender. This post will break down other terms along the way. 

Many people have felt really uncomfortable this past week. Racism is often an awkward and challenging topic to talk about. Most people avoid it altogether. Like the Thanksgiving rule, “don’t talk about race, politics, or religion”. At least that’s the rule that SOME people adhere to.

 

It’s not that the conversations about racism were never happening. Racism has been talked about forever. It just may not have been discussed in your circles.
Society has conditioned themselves to believe they are color blind, which is the most unproductive way to look at race. How do you face inequalities if you refuse to SEE them?
If anything positive came out of this terrible week, it was the conversations around this topic finally started to happen on a global level.

 

So what do we do at this point? With all this new information, where do we go from here?
We start by learning.
Researching and learning.
You have to put in the work there first.
And while you’re at it, please do me the favor of not bombarding the only POC (person of color) that you may know with a billion questions. BIPOC have been putting in the work for a very long time. Do you know how offensive it sounds to ask a POC that you know to give you information that you should have done? Remember slavery, when white people made black people put in the labor for them. Yeah, that time is over. Do your own work? Please.

The next step. Analyze how you can be anti-racist. It’s about taking action, and a great place to start is your immediate environment. 

Let’s Get Real

Let’s be honest for a second, before this news cycle, how many BIPOC did you follow or look at as educational leaders? Who were the leaders you learned from? Who were your college teachers? Who were your professional development facilitators? Do they all look the same? We need people that look different, that think differently.

Are BIPOC even given leadership positions? Power should lie in the hands of truly mixed groups. But let’s look at the education system that is blocking BIPOC from getting leadership positions.
Analyze how many minorities are staffed at your school or district, and not as support staff but as educators? Don’t think there’s a diversity issue in your school district? Who’s checking the demographics of staff, or of students? How can we (I’m speaking as a POC) possibly be leaders if we’re not given the opportunity to work in your district?

Let’s Take Action

You may not think of yourself as a diversity leader, but you are. You can help create an inclusive environment. How does that start?
Start putting yourself on the hiring committees. Start questioning where the pool of applicants are coming from? Is it from a local college that primarily has white graduates?
They say it’s all about who you know. But if your own circles are not diverse, if all your friends are white, aren’t we just hiring more of the same?

Let’s Truly Be An Ally

And if you actually have BIPOC educators in your building, help amplify their voice. Boost your colleagues standing and reputations within the school. If they propose a good idea, repeat it and give them credit. You know what I hate about teaching. It’s competitive nature. Some teachers want to stand out and look better than the rest. Get over that. This should be a field of collaboration. So ensure that other voices beyond your own are heard. Especially marginalized voices.

Let’s Learn From BIPOC, And Not Just About Race

You can also start following and learning from educational leaders that are BIPOC. Advocate for them to come into your school district and provide professional development for the staff.
I just want to throw this out there because it’s what I see as a huge issue when it comes to providing teachers with professional learning. You cannot hire a POC to provide you PD solely on culturally responsive teaching. Speaking as a person of color. I can present some kick-ass math strategies as well as address racial inequalities. I hate that BIPOC get put in a box as if the only thing we can talk about is race. https://zennedmath.com/going-against-the-grain/

Let’s Start There

Examine who’s in your educational circle. Follow different people, get diverse perspectives. Advocate for more BIPOC or underrepresented groups as keynote speakers or employees in your district. Amplify their voices and their work. Showcase that they are or can be leaders in your community.

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Math Struggles Ain’t Just About Numbers

Let’s be B.F.F.R—math can stress kids out. You’ve seen it: the frozen-in-place stare, the pencil tapping like it’s sending an SOS, or the classic “I CAN’T DO THIS!” meltdown before even trying. But here’s the thing—most of the time, their struggle isn’t about numbers. It’s about mindset.

What if we borrowed some life coaching techniques to help our students not just survive math but actually thrive in it? Let’s break it down into simple, practical ways you can empower your students without turning into a full-blown therapist.

 Reframe the Narrative (A.K.A. Flip the Script on “I’m Bad at Math”)

Ever notice how kids say “I’m bad at math” like it’s their official personality trait? That belief is holding them back more than any tricky word problem ever could.

How to Do It:

  • When a student says, “I suck at math,” respond with: “You’re still learning. Let’s find a way that makes sense to you.”
  • Introduce the Power of Yet: “You don’t get it… yet. But your brain is working on it!”
  • Share stories of people who struggled with math and overcame it (bonus points if you can find famous athletes, musicians, or influencers).

Remind them that they once thought tying their shoes was impossible, and look at them now—shoe-tying pros. Math is just another skill that takes practice.

Teach Emotional Regulation (Because Frustration Is a Math Blocker)

We can’t expect students to push through challenges if they’re spiraling into math-induced panic mode. When frustration kicks in, their brains hit the “I’m out!” button.

How to Do It:

  • Pause & Breathe: Before jumping to the “I CAN’T,” have students take a deep breath. Try “breathe in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4.” Simple, but it works.
  • Break It Down: Instead of tackling the whole problem at once, ask, “What’s one thing we DO know?” Small wins build confidence.
  • Normalize Struggle: Post a sign in your classroom: “Mistakes Mean You’re Learning.” Say it. Live it. Believe it! As Naruto says.

Set Micro-Goals (Because Big Goals Can Feel Overwhelming)

If a kid already feels lost, telling them “just keep practicing” is like saying, “just climb this mountain real quick.” Instead, break it into steps.

How to Do It:

  • Instead of “Get better at multiplication,” set a goal like: “Practice a doubling/halving strategy.”
  • Use progress charts so students can SEE their growth. 
  • Celebrate the small wins! Even if they only got one more right than last time—that’s growth!

Remind them “If you can memorize every single lyric to that TikTok song, you can 100% remember a few math strategies.” 
Honestly research shows long term memory is activated when we leverage different modalities in our lessons. It’s how the brain learns math.

Shift from Performance to Progress (Because Speed Ain’t Everything)

Fluency is about thinking efficiently, not racing to the answer. The goal isn’t to turn kids into human calculators—it’s to help them use numbers flexibly.

How to Do It:

  • Replace timed tests with strategy-based challenges (ex: “How many ways can you solve 12 × 8?”).
  • Instead of praising fast answers, celebrate smart strategies: “Ooooh, I love how you broke that down!”
  • Remind them that even adults use tools like calculators and sticky notes—real math is about knowing how to approach problems, not just getting the answer instantly.

 Teach Self-Talk (Because Their Inner Voice Matters More Than You Know)

The way kids talk to themselves about math shapes their experience with it. If they constantly say, “I can’t do this,” their brain believes it. Time to switch up the self-talk game.

How to Do It:

  • Teach “I can” statements: Instead of “I don’t get it,” try “I don’t get it YET, but I can figure this out.”
  • Have students write down one math strength (even if it’s “I’m good at counting on my fingers” – that’s a start!).
  • Encourage students to talk to themselves like they’d talk to a friend. Would they tell a friend, “You’re dumb at math”? No? Then don’t say it to yourself either!

Emphasize- “You wouldn’t let your best friend talk trash about you, so don’t let your brain do it either!”

Coaching Math Mindsets for the Win

At the end of the day, teaching math fluency isn’t just about numbers—it’s about helping kids believe they can figure things out. When we shift from just teaching math to coaching their mindset, we create students who are not only fluent in math but confident in life.

So, here’s your challenge: What’s one small move you can try this week? Whether it’s shifting self-talk, celebrating small wins, or breaking down frustration, pick one and run with it.

Oh, and if you want more strategies like these, check out my Figuring Out Fluency series, (Book 1) (Book 2) where we make fluency engaging, empowering, and (most importantly) actually make sense.

And if you want more math mindset strategies, grab my Guide For Teachers To Help Students With Growth Mindset