Going Against The Grain

So obviously what has been going on in the news recently with George Floyd, Amy freakin Cooper and even past stories of Breonna Taylor and Ahmad Arbery are absolutely terrible and weighs heavy on my heart. I wanted to share some social media posts about it. I wanted to write a blog on how these news stories impact our students and what educators can do on their part.

But this weird thing happens in the education world. You are regularly advised to stay in your lane. That you shouldn’t talk about race, religion, or politics. And while sometimes I agree on the last two. I disagree with us, ignoring discussions around race. Literally, racial inequities are impacting students’ education. Ummmm, I’m going to talk about that. How could I not?

What The Business Says

But like I mentioned, a lot of “business” advice I get is to stick to one thing. If your thing is math, just talk about math. It’s even been suggested to niche down. Meaning Math is too broad; pick one thing in math; that’s your jam. That way, you become the “go-to person” in that area. For example, maybe I should promote myself as the “word problem queen”, or the “high-quality task guru”. Ummm, no.

That’s just not going to work for me. You want to know why, because I go against the grain. And I honestly think that’s what makes me a great educator. I can teach fractions like the best of them but also talk about strategies to help our ELL students. Why can I do that? Because I put in the freakin work. And I’m continually growing as a learner and as an educator.

Is It Really That Bad To Be Considered A Jack Of All Trades?

Many have said, “Rosalba, you don’t want to be perceived as a Jack of all trades and a master of none.” You know what’s interesting about that figure of speech is that it was initially “Jack of all trades.” Originally intended as a compliment to multifaceted people. Then along the way parts were added and turned into a negative connotation “jack of all trades, master of none,”
But the full sentence is “Jack of all trade, master of none, certainly better than a master of one.”

My belief is that people should pursue all kinds of knowledge and develop several types of abilities.
Now I’m not implying that I am a Renaissance woman. Even so, being a Renaissance man/woman suggests that people are limitless in their capacity for development. Is it terrible that I view my own education and what I’d like to share as endless? Don’t we give our students that message? What you accomplish is limitless.

Do We Really Just Teach Math?

Let’s get real Math teachers really don’t just teach Math.

As educators we touch on E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G! Education is more than just the standards. Part of education is addressing social emotional learning like trauma or self esteem, even gender inequalities, racial inequalities, socio economic disadvantages  etc. This is what our students experience or will experience. These issues are part of education. Until they’re not, right? Until things change. 

So I don’t see my company as the place to get meditation tips on how to deal with exponents (even though it’s called Zenned Math). Diversity is a part of math. Gender is a part of math. Poverty is a part of math. Because they are all a part of the education system. The way I see Zenned Math is that it’s a place that helps you by cutting through the chaos and noise out there and provide some clarity of some of these topics while supporting you along the way. I learn , I test strategies out, modify them along the way, and share them with you.

And you know what, maybe everyone else is right. Perhaps the best business move is to concentrate on one area, stay in that lane, and talk about that one thing until I die. And that very well may work with everyone else. It’s just not going to happen with me.

I care about students’ education and their WORLD. And so much of what’s happening in the world today contributes to their education. I will do all I can, to learn all I can, to help them have a chance at a better life.
It’s not just about the kids. I also care about teachers not being bogged down with BS. I want to help them take the time to concentrate on the one thing that’s going to improve their work. That’s what Zenned Math boils down to.

So this gal right here will not be a one-trick pony. I will go against the grain daily if it means bringing to light the issues that affect our children. 
You may not love all the things I share. You may gravitate towards some things more than others. And that’s just fine. But Zenned Math will be a place of balance. Yes, let’s talk about Area and Perimeter, but let’s also talk about advocacy and diversity.

 

Well, this transitioned nicely to my next point. Next week’s blog will be about how we can be allies in our workplace and with our students when racial injustices occur. 

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Math Struggles Ain’t Just About Numbers

Let’s be B.F.F.R—math can stress kids out. You’ve seen it: the frozen-in-place stare, the pencil tapping like it’s sending an SOS, or the classic “I CAN’T DO THIS!” meltdown before even trying. But here’s the thing—most of the time, their struggle isn’t about numbers. It’s about mindset.

What if we borrowed some life coaching techniques to help our students not just survive math but actually thrive in it? Let’s break it down into simple, practical ways you can empower your students without turning into a full-blown therapist.

 Reframe the Narrative (A.K.A. Flip the Script on “I’m Bad at Math”)

Ever notice how kids say “I’m bad at math” like it’s their official personality trait? That belief is holding them back more than any tricky word problem ever could.

How to Do It:

  • When a student says, “I suck at math,” respond with: “You’re still learning. Let’s find a way that makes sense to you.”
  • Introduce the Power of Yet: “You don’t get it… yet. But your brain is working on it!”
  • Share stories of people who struggled with math and overcame it (bonus points if you can find famous athletes, musicians, or influencers).

Remind them that they once thought tying their shoes was impossible, and look at them now—shoe-tying pros. Math is just another skill that takes practice.

Teach Emotional Regulation (Because Frustration Is a Math Blocker)

We can’t expect students to push through challenges if they’re spiraling into math-induced panic mode. When frustration kicks in, their brains hit the “I’m out!” button.

How to Do It:

  • Pause & Breathe: Before jumping to the “I CAN’T,” have students take a deep breath. Try “breathe in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4.” Simple, but it works.
  • Break It Down: Instead of tackling the whole problem at once, ask, “What’s one thing we DO know?” Small wins build confidence.
  • Normalize Struggle: Post a sign in your classroom: “Mistakes Mean You’re Learning.” Say it. Live it. Believe it! As Naruto says.

Set Micro-Goals (Because Big Goals Can Feel Overwhelming)

If a kid already feels lost, telling them “just keep practicing” is like saying, “just climb this mountain real quick.” Instead, break it into steps.

How to Do It:

  • Instead of “Get better at multiplication,” set a goal like: “Practice a doubling/halving strategy.”
  • Use progress charts so students can SEE their growth. 
  • Celebrate the small wins! Even if they only got one more right than last time—that’s growth!

Remind them “If you can memorize every single lyric to that TikTok song, you can 100% remember a few math strategies.” 
Honestly research shows long term memory is activated when we leverage different modalities in our lessons. It’s how the brain learns math.

Shift from Performance to Progress (Because Speed Ain’t Everything)

Fluency is about thinking efficiently, not racing to the answer. The goal isn’t to turn kids into human calculators—it’s to help them use numbers flexibly.

How to Do It:

  • Replace timed tests with strategy-based challenges (ex: “How many ways can you solve 12 × 8?”).
  • Instead of praising fast answers, celebrate smart strategies: “Ooooh, I love how you broke that down!”
  • Remind them that even adults use tools like calculators and sticky notes—real math is about knowing how to approach problems, not just getting the answer instantly.

 Teach Self-Talk (Because Their Inner Voice Matters More Than You Know)

The way kids talk to themselves about math shapes their experience with it. If they constantly say, “I can’t do this,” their brain believes it. Time to switch up the self-talk game.

How to Do It:

  • Teach “I can” statements: Instead of “I don’t get it,” try “I don’t get it YET, but I can figure this out.”
  • Have students write down one math strength (even if it’s “I’m good at counting on my fingers” – that’s a start!).
  • Encourage students to talk to themselves like they’d talk to a friend. Would they tell a friend, “You’re dumb at math”? No? Then don’t say it to yourself either!

Emphasize- “You wouldn’t let your best friend talk trash about you, so don’t let your brain do it either!”

Coaching Math Mindsets for the Win

At the end of the day, teaching math fluency isn’t just about numbers—it’s about helping kids believe they can figure things out. When we shift from just teaching math to coaching their mindset, we create students who are not only fluent in math but confident in life.

So, here’s your challenge: What’s one small move you can try this week? Whether it’s shifting self-talk, celebrating small wins, or breaking down frustration, pick one and run with it.

Oh, and if you want more strategies like these, check out my Figuring Out Fluency series, (Book 1) (Book 2) where we make fluency engaging, empowering, and (most importantly) actually make sense.

And if you want more math mindset strategies, grab my Guide For Teachers To Help Students With Growth Mindset