Gratitude Journals Are Exactly What Students Need

Holy crap, this year from hell is almost over.

But let’s get real, it’s not like January 1st has some mystical powers that realign all that’s wrong in the world. The beginning of the year will have some of the same old shit.

The virus will still be around. We might continue to teach remotely. Motivation and mindset may still be on a low. That’s expected as long as we look for different ways to approach this new year.

One of the most beneficial shifts we could make is using gratitude journals. And I’m not talking about gratitude journaling for you (although that is beneficial); I mean for the kids.

WTF is it?

It’s exactly what it sounds like journal writing, where you express gratitude-thinking and appreciating the good things that happen to us in our lives.

Teachers usually do activities similar to this during Thanksgiving. The time of year to give thanks. But we miss the mark because we don’t carry out this activity throughout the school year. That means providing daily practice for creating a lifelong attitude of finding the good in everything.

kid laying in bed with a journal and thinking

What Are The Benefits?

Research supports that gratitude improves the lives of students and adults. Keeping a journal daily:

  • Can lower stress levels, make you feel calmer.
  • Helps increase student achievement.
  • Helps with building stronger and healthier relationships with peers and teachers.
  • Helps you become more self-aware, learn more about yourself.
  • Helps you feel accomplished.
  • Enhances empathy and emotional intelligence.
  • Changes the perspective neurons.

The brain loves to remember negative experiences. Journaling helps with shifting towards optimism, building a positive mindset.

According to Jeffrey Froh, an assistant professor of psychology at Hofstra University, “We know that grateful kids are happier and more satisfied with their lives. They report better relationships with friends and family, higher GPAs, less materialism, less envy, and less depression, along with a desire to connect to their community and want to give back…”.

feet placed next to a starting line on the ground

How To Get It Started In Your Classroom

1. Have students find time to write daily. Make it a part of your classroom routine. Help students build this habit.

2. Don’t dictate how long they should write. This should be an authentic writing opportunity. Please don’t ruin it by putting expectations and limitations. And above all DO NOT GRADE IT! This ruins the whole point of it.

3. There is truly no wrong way to journal. It can be expressed artistically. Students could doodle, draw, paint, or write.

4. The journal itself doesn’t have to be fancy or a pretty printable you found. A simple composition notebook works just fine. Students can get creative inside of it or even decorate the outside.

5. Don’t force prompts. For example, name three people you’re grateful for and why. STOP THAT! That’s not natural. Being thankful is organic. Don’t make this another rigid activity.

6. Encourage students to be specific. For example, writing about people and the experiences they’ve had.

Side note- Students may not used to this kind of thinking and writing. You can provide them with a list of prompts for them to choose from. It will help get those juices flowing. Gratitude Journal Prompts PDF

7. Don’t have students share their gratitudes; they are private. What you can do is ask students to share the idea they used. For example, a student may say, “Today I wrote about a memory” or “today I doodled my favorite food.”

8. Use read alouds that express gratitude.
The Last Stop On Market Street
Thank You, Mr. Panda
The Giving Tree
Grateful Ninja
Zen Pig: The Art Of Gratitude
My Attitude Of Gratitude: Growing Grateful Kids

9. Explain the role to parents and guardians.

student journal of their gratitude for their cat
Let go of expectations. This is their thing. It shouldn’t be forced or seem like a chore. We want students to journal willingly and joyfully. But like all habits, it will take some time. The benefits of journaling are worth it in the long run.

Math Struggles Ain’t Just About Numbers

Let’s be B.F.F.R—math can stress kids out. You’ve seen it: the frozen-in-place stare, the pencil tapping like it’s sending an SOS, or the classic “I CAN’T DO THIS!” meltdown before even trying. But here’s the thing—most of the time, their struggle isn’t about numbers. It’s about mindset.

What if we borrowed some life coaching techniques to help our students not just survive math but actually thrive in it? Let’s break it down into simple, practical ways you can empower your students without turning into a full-blown therapist.

 Reframe the Narrative (A.K.A. Flip the Script on “I’m Bad at Math”)

Ever notice how kids say “I’m bad at math” like it’s their official personality trait? That belief is holding them back more than any tricky word problem ever could.

How to Do It:

  • When a student says, “I suck at math,” respond with: “You’re still learning. Let’s find a way that makes sense to you.”
  • Introduce the Power of Yet: “You don’t get it… yet. But your brain is working on it!”
  • Share stories of people who struggled with math and overcame it (bonus points if you can find famous athletes, musicians, or influencers).

Remind them that they once thought tying their shoes was impossible, and look at them now—shoe-tying pros. Math is just another skill that takes practice.

Teach Emotional Regulation (Because Frustration Is a Math Blocker)

We can’t expect students to push through challenges if they’re spiraling into math-induced panic mode. When frustration kicks in, their brains hit the “I’m out!” button.

How to Do It:

  • Pause & Breathe: Before jumping to the “I CAN’T,” have students take a deep breath. Try “breathe in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4.” Simple, but it works.
  • Break It Down: Instead of tackling the whole problem at once, ask, “What’s one thing we DO know?” Small wins build confidence.
  • Normalize Struggle: Post a sign in your classroom: “Mistakes Mean You’re Learning.” Say it. Live it. Believe it! As Naruto says.

Set Micro-Goals (Because Big Goals Can Feel Overwhelming)

If a kid already feels lost, telling them “just keep practicing” is like saying, “just climb this mountain real quick.” Instead, break it into steps.

How to Do It:

  • Instead of “Get better at multiplication,” set a goal like: “Practice a doubling/halving strategy.”
  • Use progress charts so students can SEE their growth. 
  • Celebrate the small wins! Even if they only got one more right than last time—that’s growth!

Remind them “If you can memorize every single lyric to that TikTok song, you can 100% remember a few math strategies.” 
Honestly research shows long term memory is activated when we leverage different modalities in our lessons. It’s how the brain learns math.

Shift from Performance to Progress (Because Speed Ain’t Everything)

Fluency is about thinking efficiently, not racing to the answer. The goal isn’t to turn kids into human calculators—it’s to help them use numbers flexibly.

How to Do It:

  • Replace timed tests with strategy-based challenges (ex: “How many ways can you solve 12 × 8?”).
  • Instead of praising fast answers, celebrate smart strategies: “Ooooh, I love how you broke that down!”
  • Remind them that even adults use tools like calculators and sticky notes—real math is about knowing how to approach problems, not just getting the answer instantly.

 Teach Self-Talk (Because Their Inner Voice Matters More Than You Know)

The way kids talk to themselves about math shapes their experience with it. If they constantly say, “I can’t do this,” their brain believes it. Time to switch up the self-talk game.

How to Do It:

  • Teach “I can” statements: Instead of “I don’t get it,” try “I don’t get it YET, but I can figure this out.”
  • Have students write down one math strength (even if it’s “I’m good at counting on my fingers” – that’s a start!).
  • Encourage students to talk to themselves like they’d talk to a friend. Would they tell a friend, “You’re dumb at math”? No? Then don’t say it to yourself either!

Emphasize- “You wouldn’t let your best friend talk trash about you, so don’t let your brain do it either!”

Coaching Math Mindsets for the Win

At the end of the day, teaching math fluency isn’t just about numbers—it’s about helping kids believe they can figure things out. When we shift from just teaching math to coaching their mindset, we create students who are not only fluent in math but confident in life.

So, here’s your challenge: What’s one small move you can try this week? Whether it’s shifting self-talk, celebrating small wins, or breaking down frustration, pick one and run with it.

Oh, and if you want more strategies like these, check out my Figuring Out Fluency series, (Book 1) (Book 2) where we make fluency engaging, empowering, and (most importantly) actually make sense.

And if you want more math mindset strategies, grab my Guide For Teachers To Help Students With Growth Mindset